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I'm jealous...

Mar 27, '08 7:09 AM
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There are things in life I get a bit jelly.

You know as in “jealous”

Oh, dear, is that a mortal sin?

To be envious of your neighbors? Friends? Loved-ones? Enemies?

Oh, im sure you’ve experienced this too!

The green-eyed monster! Yaaarrrrrkkkkkk!!!!!!

These past few weeks there are certain things I’m really jealous of

i don’t easily get jealous, mind you guys.

I don’t whine over small things in a relationship

In short I’m not the selosa type of GF.

But I’m not in a relationship now, so that’s no use to talk about now

I’m freaking turning into a green-eyed monster!

Close friends getting married soon….

Some having their engagement party

And unexpected pregnancies

Friends having their first babies.

So, as a good friend of them

I’m offering to drive them around to look for the perfect venue for wedding

Planning with the pregnant friend, great ideas for this and that even volunteered to give them some diaper cakes.

Is that my defense mechanism in coping with jealousy?

When I was a bit younger, I thought I’l get married early.

Have kids after college

Everything seems all planned out

I never imagine myself as a career woman

Or working in a office

I want to be like a Stepford’s wife….on a second thought.. NOT!

I just want to be the perfect mom with 6 kids…

and to have my own happy family….

But I guess, no matter how hard you planned your life…. Life has its own plan for you.

I know God has its own plan for me…

And everything happens for a reason.

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bheniedel wrote on Mar 27

hindi ka nag-iisa grace :D

"When I was a bit younger, I thought I’l get married early.

Have kids after college

Everything seems all planned out" - sobrang nakakarelate ako dito.

Talaga daw ganun eh,di mo minsan alam what's really in store for you...sabi nga sa forrest gump --- "life is like a box of chocolate, you never know what you gonna get"

thetrueasiatic wrote on Mar 27

6 kids? ??
dami nyan!
5 lang.

wag mapili ...baka mapunta sa bungi! (joke)

ekatherina30 wrote on Mar 27

alam mo ganyan din ako dati.ang ate ko nag=asawa sya when she was 19.naiinggit tuloy ako kase binata at dalaga na ang mga anak nya ako heto wala paring sariling pamilya.

minsan naman ganaun talaga daw.the more na gusto mong makuha parang mailap sayo.kahit ako dapat when I was 22 mag-aasawa na dapat ako noon,pero mas inuna ko ang pagtulong ko sa pamilya ko.may mga bagay na dapat nating iprioritize at mamili diba?

Naalala ko yung usapan namin ng isa kong kaibigan noon.Na Kahit anong mangyari puso parin daw ang dapat naming piliin dahil alam daw namin na doon kami magiging masaya.Ngayon pareho kaming walang magandang career pero masaya sya may anak at mabait na asawa.Ako wala ring career pero masaya ako na may bf.Nagkaroon ako ng matinong bf para naring may direction ang buhay ko dahil sa kanya..

Sa akin hindi ko priority to have a wonderful career,simpleng buhay lang ang gusto ko kasama ng pamilya ko at siempre magkaroon ng sarili kong pamilya.Yun ang buhay ko.

farouche wrote on Mar 27

Kath! naku parehas tau... sobra... :)
that was a good insight .. thanks for sharing... i'm a bit relief now... :) salamat

farouche wrote on Mar 27

bheniedel said

aww... uu sbrng tama ung forrest gump....
may BF na kaya ako ng HS until college ..and after college... i thought happily ever after na, alala ko pa sbe anu ba yan HS palang may BF malandi yan, maaga mabubuntis... sheyt bumaliktad ata ang mundo... mukha nagsabe ata nun nanganak na... buntis na... hahaha... anu ba yan... pero paka meron pako iful-fill sa life nu? :)

farouche wrote on Mar 27

thetrueasiatic said

6 kids? ??
dami nyan!
5 lang.

wag mapili ...baka mapunta sa bungi! (joke)

hahahahah.... ok nga sna kung may pagpipilian eh wala eh.... hahahahahah
6 kids... para masaya... :)

robeebaby wrote on Mar 27

hay gracie...
singleness is next to prettiness which is next to hotness!
un lang.
maganda pa ren tayo! =D

farouche wrote on Mar 27

OHMYGAWWD rob! i love that hahahaha..
thanks robs...:) agree!!!! hahahaha
take care always
stay fab

fussycathy wrote on Mar 27

This blog entry made me really pause, think and reflect. Mejo nag flash back ang aking kabataan. Hahahaha as if naman oldie na ako eh noh. Anyways, I want to share something din so you won't feel like you're alone in this. We all have dreams, aspirations and goals in life. Sometimes things don't turn out the way you expect them to. Life is full of surprises talaga. When I was younger and still naive, I never thought for one second sa mga consequences ng mga actions ko. Hala bira lang. Parang rebel without a cause ano? I realized now I am still lucky because I ended up having a good blessed life. (Baby na lang ang kulang heheh..) My family in Pinas are doing well and I have a good loving husband na parang bestfriend ko na rin kasi we always make it a point to talk, laugh and not to be so serious about life. kasi nga life is so short to be so worried all the time. We've got to make every moment worthwhile. As long as you're healthy, happy, and loved - you are blessed.

fussycathy wrote on Mar 27

In time, the right guy will find you. and when he does, you will be ready to walk down that aisle and say I do with no hesitations. No cold feet. And you will shine like a star on that special day!

farouche wrote on Mar 27

aww.. this line made me feel alright

"We've got to make every moment worthwhile. As long as you're healthy, happy, and loved - you are blessed."

farouche wrote on Mar 27, edited on Mar 27

fussycathy said

In time, the right guy will find you. and when he does, you will be ready to walk down that aisle and say I do with no hesitations. No cold feet. And you will shine like a star on that special day!

aww.. Atchie Cath... i've been praying for that.... :) i love how you put it into words... perfect.. thank you.... can i use that... i might post that as my shoutout... with "-cathy" in the end.. hahahahah :) those words are every inspiring....

theharebrained wrote on Mar 27

yes... everything happens for a reason...
.. enjoy life..
you've got lots to offer...

farouche wrote on Mar 27

hahaha.. thanks janis.. :)

plorwaks wrote on Mar 27

to everything there is a season,
and a time to every purpose under the heavens...

Ecclesiastes 3:1

;-)

bheniedel wrote on Mar 27

farouche said

malamang....hay nako, maraming ganyan sis. nung elementary nga kami, hula nila ako una mag-aasawa sa batch eh, dios ko, kamusta naman? halos lahat may asawa na, konti na lang kami singles. at least tayo enjoy na natin pagiging single. :D

farouche wrote on Mar 28

plorwaks said

to everything there is a season,
and a time to every purpose under the heavens...

Ecclesiastes 3:1

;-)

Thank you for that wonderful biblical passage :)

farouche wrote on Mar 28

bheniedel said

naku... mahuhuli pa ata ako magasawa din hahahaa..... :)

plorwaks wrote on Mar 28

Bhenie at Mary Grace...
may purpose pa siguro kung bakit kayo single...
tandaan nyo lang... si Ruth naghintay ng 100 years bago magka anak

:-P

farouche wrote on Mar 28

hahahaha... 100 years... :) ndi kana magkakababy nun ah... :)

plorwaks wrote on Mar 28

pero bakit sya nagkababy di ba?
basta... hindi naman kawalan ng pag-asa pag inabot ng retiring age eh single pa rin ang tao... may plano ang Maykapal sa atin at sya lang ang nakaka alam ng tamang panahon... hehehe... teka masyado nang seryoso... buti nga kayo pwede pang makipag date sa iba eh :((

surfinhawaii wrote on Mar 28

hahaha. ang taray. hahaha. senti?
seriously. so wat if ur single? so wat if di natupad plans mu? so so soso. hahaha db? darn i know ur happy and 4 wat? to be complete? hahaha nababaliw ka na naman. God has plans for u. malay mo pagdating mo sa shanghai makatagpo ka ng hottie na blue eyes. hahaha... tapos malay mo magkaroon ka pa ng 100pcs ng hermes and chanel. hahahaha mas maganda un db? agree?

farouche wrote on Mar 28

OHMYGAWD. i hate you dar. :) BETCH! hahaha
i need to see you guys soon..
oh im sure we'll c each other tmrw. :)

ang drama nu?
hahaha
like what atchie cath said, the right guy will find his way to me. err... find his way back? err.. never mind
i'm happy naman ryt now you know. :)
it's just some plans didnt work out.
tapos parang now im lost. :)

surfinhawaii wrote on Mar 29

lost? lost in space? hahahaha paka drama mu huh. lets go dancing.

farouche wrote on Mar 29

OMG!! yeah!!! lets go dancing! its sat nyt! :)

yvtganda11 wrote on Mar 29

hey gracie, cliche as it may sound... EVERYTHING DOES HAPPEN FOR A REASON... we may not know the reason now, or not even know the reason totally.. but before you know it, that EVERYTHING is all falling into place... i agree with what ms cathy said. the right guy will find you... don't look for him, just be patient and wait... as for now, enjoy life with friends and family...

farouche wrote on Mar 30, edited on Mar 30

Hahaha.. i'm not looking for a guy nu. ayoko na. :) i want my own kids! bwahahahahaha! gawd, im going to work na... real work na.. .... hahahah and independent.. super independent.. malaking gudluck sakin in that somewhere hahaha... Thanks Yvettie.... :)

yvtganda11 wrote on Apr 1

hmm.. where is that somewhere nga ba? nway, kaya mo yan... pag ndi mo kaya, kayanin mo pa rin... you'll get through it... strong ka! :)

farouche wrote on Apr 1

uu kakayanin natin yan yvette! :) hows ur new work? wish u all the best! :) go maske..ndi kaya... kayanin.. hngng before you knw it.. pauwi napala ako ulit dito hahahaha :)

yvtganda11 wrote on Apr 1

yep.. sandali lang yan... maglakwatsa ka na lang and mag work ng mag work... di mo na mapapansin ang time... and keep blogging... para mabilis lumipas time mo... :)

farouche wrote on Apr 1

naku..lakwatcha? i dont think so... i duno anyone there hahaha and naku.. ill survive i know... kaya naten yan go go go sago! :)

yvtganda11 wrote on Apr 1

yep, kayanin natin! goodluck gracie...

abhie13 wrote on Jun 27

farouche said

I know God has its own plan for me…

yah he does...ibibigay nia sau un sa time na para na talaga sayo :) ako minsan i feel the same way kc halos lahat ng mga friends ko at kakilala ganun din nagaaasawa,anak,engage etc tas ako parang bat ganun wala pa? tas there was a point pa na i think may problema ata sa akin :( then i realize god has better plans for me and that he will give it to me when im ready for it to have it para kapag dumating na un time na un mas mafeel ko un worth at pagiging special :)

farouche wrote on Jun 27

aww... that is so sweet.. and very enlightening. Thank you. :) dpt ngayon.. go with the flow lang.. enjoy enjoy muna..focus sa career :) dadateng at dadateng yan.... :) the right prince will find his way to my heart :) naks! eww..... :)

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6 kids? ??
dami nyan!
5 lang.

wag mapili ...baka mapunta sa bungi! (joke)

6 kids? ??
dami nyan!
5 lang.

wag mapili ...baka mapunta sa bungi! (joke)

Do you know Mary Grace?

Who is on Multiply?

Want to learn more?

Already a Member?

6 kids? ?? dami nyan! 5 lang.wag mapili ...baka mapunta sa bungi! (joke)

6 kids? ?? dami nyan! 5 lang.wag mapili ...baka mapunta sa bungi! (joke)

6 kids? ??
dami nyan!
5 lang.

wag mapili ...baka mapunta sa bungi! (joke)

6 kids? ??
dami nyan!
5 lang.

wag mapili ...baka mapunta sa bungi! (joke)